ေအာင္ျမင္ေသာအိမ္ေထာင္ေရး ေသာ့ခ်က္

ဒီေန႔ မွတ္သားမိတဲ့ က်န္းမာေရးဆိုင္ရာ သတင္းတပုဒ္ကို စာဖတ္သူေတြနဲ႔ ေ၀မွ်ခ်င္ပါတယ္။ ဘန္ေကာက္ပို႔စ္ သတင္းစာကပါ။


ေအာင္ျမင္တဲ့ အိမ္ေထာင္ေရးရဲ့ အဓိကေသာ့ခ်က္ေတြထဲက တခုက ေဒါသေပးထြက္ျခင္း ပါတဲ့။ One of the keys to a successful marriage is to get angry.အေမရိကန္ ဖေလာ္ရီဒါျပည္နယ္တကၠသိုလ္တခုရဲ့ ေလ့လာေတြ႔ရွိခ်က္ပါ။


တခါမွ ရန္မျဖစ္ဖူးဆိုတဲ့ စံုတြဲေတြ ၿမဲဖို႔ ခက္တယ္လို႔လည္း ဆိုထားျပန္ပါေသးတယ္။ ဒါေပမယ့္ ခဏပဲ ျဖစ္တဲ့ ေဒါသမ်ဳိးကိုသာ ေျပာတာေနာ္။

ကဲ.... ရန္ျဖစ္လိုက္ ျပန္ခ်စ္လိုက္ေပါ့ေနာ္။ :D :D :D

မူရင္းစာသားကေတာ့ ဘန္ေကာက္ပို႔စ္သတင္းစာနဲ႔ အြန္လိုင္းမွာဆို ဒီလင့္ခ္မွာပါ။ http://www.bangkokpost.com/news/health/308647/want-a-happy-marriage-get-angry

Want a happy marriage? Get angry

• Published: 21/08/2012 at 10:42 AM
• Online news: Health

One of the keys to a successful marriage is to get angry.

At least, that's the conclusion of a recent study out of Florida State University, where researchers examined the complex dynamics of why some relationships last, and others fail.

The findings run counter to the recent trend of "positive psychology" in which couples are taught that forgiveness, optimism, kindness and positive thinking can help heal a broken relationship following a serious transgression, admits lead researcher James McNulty.

But in his research, McNulty found that sometimes the "short-term discomfort of an angry but honest conversation" can be beneficial to the relationship in the long run.

This is particularly true among "disagreeable" spouses who may take advantage of their partner's good nature and willingness to forgive and forget.

"Believing a partner is forgiving leads agreeable people to be less likely to offend that partner and disagreeable people to be more likely to offend that partner," he said in a statement.

Moreover, expressing anger can serve as an important role in signaling that the offending behavior is unacceptable, he added.

"This work suggests people need to be flexible in how they address the problems that will inevitably arise over the course of their relationships. There is no 'magic bullet,' no single way to think or behave in a relationship. The consequences of each decision we make in our relationships depends on the circumstances that surround that decision."

The research was presented at the American Psychological Association in Orlando earlier this month.