ေအာင္ျမင္တဲ့ အိမ္ေထာင္ေရးရဲ့ အဓိကေသာ့ခ်က္ေတြထဲက တခုက ေဒါသေပးထြက္ျခင္း ပါတဲ့။ One of the keys to a successful marriage is to get angry.အေမရိကန္ ဖေလာ္ရီဒါျပည္နယ္တကၠသိုလ္တခုရဲ့ ေလ့လာေတြ႔ရွိခ်က္ပါ။
တခါမွ ရန္မျဖစ္ဖူးဆိုတဲ့ စံုတြဲေတြ ၿမဲဖို႔ ခက္တယ္လို႔လည္း ဆိုထားျပန္ပါေသးတယ္။ ဒါေပမယ့္ ခဏပဲ ျဖစ္တဲ့ ေဒါသမ်ဳိးကိုသာ ေျပာတာေနာ္။
ကဲ.... ရန္ျဖစ္လိုက္ ျပန္ခ်စ္လိုက္ေပါ့ေနာ္။ :D :D :D
မူရင္းစာသားကေတာ့ ဘန္ေကာက္ပို႔စ္သတင္းစာနဲ႔ အြန္လိုင္းမွာဆို ဒီလင့္ခ္မွာပါ။ http://www.bangkokpost.com/news/health/308647/want-a-happy-marriage-get-angry
Want a happy marriage? Get angry
- Published: 21/08/2012 at 10:42 AM
- Online news: Health
One of the keys to a successful marriage is to get angry.
At least, that's the conclusion of a recent study out of Florida
State University, where researchers examined the complex dynamics of why
some relationships last, and others fail.
The findings run counter to the recent trend of "positive psychology"
in which couples are taught that forgiveness, optimism, kindness and
positive thinking can help heal a broken relationship following a
serious transgression, admits lead researcher James McNulty.
But in his research, McNulty found that sometimes the "short-term
discomfort of an angry but honest conversation" can be beneficial to the
relationship in the long run.
This is particularly true among "disagreeable" spouses who may take
advantage of their partner's good nature and willingness to forgive and
forget.
"Believing a partner is forgiving leads agreeable people to be less
likely to offend that partner and disagreeable people to be more likely
to offend that partner," he said in a statement.
Moreover, expressing anger can serve as an important role in signaling that the offending behavior is unacceptable, he added.
"This work suggests people need to be flexible in how they address
the problems that will inevitably arise over the course of their
relationships. There is no 'magic bullet,' no single way to think or
behave in a relationship. The consequences of each decision we make in
our relationships depends on the circumstances that surround that
decision."
The research was presented at the American Psychological Association in Orlando earlier this month.